How easy it is to get gay sex in Bangkok (Part 1-Grindr)

 

If you’re a gay guy that likes to have a lot of random sex on your travels, Bangkok should probably be very high up on your travel radar. Sex is as easy to come by as a cup of coffee here in this crazy capital, and although on this trip I have been pretty tame (so far 3 clients and 1 local), on previous trips I have took full advantage of the men on tap, so let me share a few things with you in case you are planning a trip yourself.

 

Grindr

 

Aaaah Grindr, the go-to app for the horny gay. Whilst I don’t use the app much when at home in UK, here in Bangkok it is a different story. I find Grindr here a whole lot less fuss.

 

First of all, expect as a westerner to be bombarded with messages from friendly locals, especially if you are non asian. We are talking 100s of messages from horny locals and expats smelling a new bit of blood in town and going in for the bite. I can confirm from travelling with other guys and speaking to fellow travellers, that this is the case whether you are a 2 or a 10 on the fit-omitor.

 

Unlike in the UK, where I find the guys want to spend months chatting before the notion of jumping in bed comes up, the Thai guys do not mess around. The convo usually looks something like

 

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Horny?’

‘Yes’

‘Where are you?’

‘Hotel X’

‘I can be there in 20 mins that ok?

‘Yeah see you soon’

 

It really is this straight forward with Grindr here in Bangkok (or Thailand in general the places I have visited so far.

 

The Men

 

So I have your attention now you know how easy sex is to arrange on Grindr (and there are lots of other options coming up if Grindr not your bag), you want to know what is on the menu right?

 

The guys on Grindr in Bangkok are (in my estimation) 80% Thai/Local 10% Expats (mainly US) and 10% fellow travellers/holiday makers. There are less horny young backpackers than you would hope or imagine.

 

Whilst the majority of Thai guys are small, slim and ripped; if that isn’t your bag you will find loads of muscled guys. If you are into chubs/bears etc you may be disappointed as most the guys are fall into the twink or jock category. Overweight Thai guys are hard to find, shocking when everything they seem to eat is fried in shit loads of oil and covered in MSG. Maybe it is all the sex keeping them trim?

 

The majority of the Thai  guys that I have met so far in my many trips to Bangkok have been highly educated and spoke good English (not been the case for me outside of the capital, but who wants to chat anyways).

 

The Sex

 

Whilst the Grindr sex is very easy to arrange, in complete honesty, I am yet to find any sex of substance on the app in Thailand. The Thai guys I have met up with so far have been very much the same. They enter the room, before you know it they are shutting your blinds and whipping off everything (I like to take off your clothes thank you Mr Thai Guy). They skip the Fore and go straight for the play.

 

I hate to stereotype, but (slag alert), I have probably slept with over 60 guys off there so far, and the script has pretty much been the same. I am sat here now scratching my head trying to think of a horny grindr meet to elaborate on, but failing to dig one out of the bag.

 

Luckily for me the sex I have had with clients this trip so far has been of high quality!

 

The Aftermath

 

So you log onto Grindr, get 100s of messages, choose your guy, get him delivered quicker than a domino’s pizza, have (albeit disposable) sex, and get on with your day. Right? Wrong.

 

Again, the following sounds really judgemental, but I can only share my (and my mates) experience of meeting the locals here in Bangkok.

 

The Thai guys so far (bar the odd one of course) have wanted want to arrange your second meet pretty much immediately after shooting their load. They will ask what you are doing now, and ask to join. Can we meet again later? What’s your number? Give them your number and be prepared to be hounded.

 

I am not talking about guys after your money here (that will be part 2 of this post), they are just a friendly nation and like to meet again. And are extremely persistent to arrange. And take it VERY BADLY when you don’t want to.

 

So if like me you like to have sex without any further commitment, be prepared to feel really bad as you block the guy afterwards. I always feel so shitty after doing this, hence the reason I haven’t met any guys off grindr this visit.

 

I have been on there to advertise my service, but quickly found that guys on there don’t want to pay my premium whitey price haha.

 

I would like to point out that I absolutely love Thai people, hence the reason for wanting to spend more time here!

 

Part 2 soon (Money Boys)

PS – I will start proof reading and checking for bad grammar next month when I am not on my holiday haha, for now just banging them out as they come into my head xx

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